Rossy's Corner

The Perfect Kiss

Before Wonderful I thought I knew what a good kiss was, in fact I believed that I had a few great kisses from a small number of exes. And then Wonderful kissed me. The first time, I was surprised so I didn’t move. But the second first kiss……. was amazing! Every kiss after that one was great too!

Unfortunately, Wonderful has stopped kissing me. We barely speak – a text every so often and we no longer hang out. Yes I know that this means that Wonderful “is not that into me” and I need to stop being so desperate and move on as my bestie so bluntly put it……….. several times.

I’m going through a loss of Wonderful right now and it hurts. I have hope that later on I will meet Wonderful 2.0, who will rhyme with my drum beat and whose kisses will knock me off my feet! But until that day that I meet Wonderful 2.0 I am happy for what Wonderful showed me and I will be okay. So yes I’m still single, I have kissing withdrawal but I’m alive! And where there is life, there is hope! (And I hope that I will get to enjoy more perfect kisses.)

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My birthday

Happy birthday to me! I am officially a year older.

I wanted to try something new. First I wanted to find a wonderful cabin to just get away but I didn’t find something that I really liked. Then I wanted to go to a bed and breakfast but I was hesitant on that because I’m black and I didn’t know if the places I liked would be okay with hosting black people and I did not want any issues.

So I decided that I would sleep in a hotel. I picked a local hotel about 20 minutes from my home that I went and it was nice to sleep somewhere else. Then later in the day, Wonderful and I went to dinner and it was nice (especially since we had not talked or spent time with each other in a long while).

Next year I plan on taking time and finding a cabin to just go on a retreat for the week of my birthday. It will be so awesome!!!!

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Let’s Be Friends

I recently met someone new (aka Wonderful) – educated, funny, employed, age appropriate and a homeowner. After a wonderful, what I believed to be a first date (it wasn’t) – Wonderful told me that the only thing we could be was friends. YES, I was offered the dreaded “let’s be friends”. Friends?

After asking for clarification on what “friends” entails. I was told – going out to activities, lots of kisses, spending time together, and getting to know each other. Just no titles.

I thought about it and I’m trying it out ………. for now.